| "Rabbi Eliezer says: 'Let the honor of your friend be as dear to you as your own.'" (Avos 2:10) How do we open our hearts to honor our friends with the same honor that we wish for ourself? The sincere honor of one's friend rests on two pillars: respect and patience. In fact, a generous and unending supply of patience is indispensable to sufficiently honor your friend. If one lacks patience and is short-tempered with his friend, there is no question that his friend will feel slighted. In fact, Rabbi Yisrael Salanter said that there is nothing that damages relationships as much as anger. Whereas, constant respect and honor even at times when you don't see eye to eye, insures a lasting and enduring friendship.
Constant respect and patience enhances honor, and effectively preserves and strengthens good relationships. Envision Avraham Avinu and Sara Emanu honoring their guests and treating them like kings. See how their graciousness, kindness, and respect fills the hearts of their guests with joy. Emulate Avraham's and Sara's winning combination of respect and patience -- and enjoy the wonderful benefits of enduring friendships. (Based on the commentary of the Bartenura to Pirkei Avos)
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