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terça-feira, 10 de fevereiro de 2026

SF - # The Fragility of Material Shortcuts

In honor of Mr. and Mrs. Yaacov Granitzky:
With heartfelt gratitude, we wish you and your family bracha, hatzlacha, and abundant nachas!

This passage from Chovot HaLevavot (Sha’ar HaBitachon) highlights the psychological and physical prison created by relying on worldly "shortcuts" (alchemy) versus the liberation of trusting in HaShem.


Core Idea: The Fragility of Material Shortcuts


The alchemist—or anyone who relies solely on their own cleverness to secure wealth—lives a life of profound insecurity. Even if they succeed in "making gold," their success is their greatest liability. They are forced to hide their craft in shadows, fearing that the government or greedy individuals will discover their secret. Ultimately, their wealth does not accompany them to their end, and HaShem—the "Ruler of all"—may allow that very secret to become the instrument of their downfall by placing them at the mercy of those who would kill for it.


The Moral


True independence is not found in a secret bank account, a "perfect" investment, or a hidden advantage. Those things require constant protection and invite anxiety. Real freedom is found in Bitachon (Trust), which provides a security that no thief can steal and no king can confiscate.


Application Exercises


To shift from the "Alchemist's Anxiety" to the "Trusting Heart," try these three exercises:

1. The "Open Hand" Audit (Identifying Alchemy)

We all have "alchemy"—things we think we must have or do to be okay (e.g., a specific connection, a hidden side-hustle, or a certain image we project).

  • The Action: Identify one area where you are "hiding" your efforts or feeling overly protective/anxious about your source of income or status.
  • The Goal: Consciously acknowledge: "I put in the effort, but this source is just a tool. The Source is HaShem." Practice being slightly more transparent or generous in that area to break the "secrecy" trap.

2. The "Fear Replacement" Protocol (Mental Pivot)

The alchemist fears that "the Ruler of all will give power over him to someone who will put him to death." This is the ultimate fear of losing control.

  • The Action: When a financial or personal worry arises, stop and say the phrase: "The Ruler of all is the only one with power."
  • The Goal: Replace the fear of "the person/event that can hurt me" with the realization that even that person/event is under HaShem’s control. If He is for you, who can be against you?

3. The "Wealth of the Heart" Walk (Physical Security)

The Ba’al Bitachon walks safely because his wealth is internal.

  • The Action: Go for a 5-minute walk without your phone or wallet.
  • The Goal: As you walk, focus on the fact that your value and your sustenance are guaranteed by your relationship with the Creator, not by the items you carry or the "gold" you have stored. Feel the physical lightness of not having to "guard" your security for a few moments.



Life Advice – עצת חיים


You are welcome to ask any question and receive a personal, private response from Rabbi Zvi Miller.


Please email: salantorg@gmail.com

Donations and Dedications

May the souls who left this world be remembered for a blessing.

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Mordecai ben Rav Moshe and Rebbitzen Mazel Malka bas Sara

R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph

R' Asher Zelig ben Zvi Hirsch and Moras Raizel bas Pesach

Meira Leah bas Michael

Basha Elka bas Moshe HaCohen

Devorah bas Moshe

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Yisrael ben HaRav HaGaon Zev Wolf

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Moshe ben HaRav HaGaon Yacov

Moshe Fisher

HaRav HaGaon Daniel Zvi ben Avraham Chanuch

HaRav HaGaon Ben Zion Freid

HaRav HaGoan Yaacov Yitzchak Abrahams

HaRav HaGaon Gershon Chaim ben Nachum Zev

HaRav Ha Gaon Yehoshua Bergman

R' Maair Ben R' Yakutiel and Javayeer z"tl

Rav Asher ben Chasha Mosha Basha and Chaya Breina Lazarus




Refuah Shleimah

Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta

Zivia bas Raizel

Tzvi ben Chana

Avner Shimon ben Argamon

Leah Hadassah bas Michal Chana

Chava Bas Michal Chanah

Nuna bas Nuna

Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora

Chaya Leah bas Sara

Chaya Shaina Chana Bas Itcha

Netanel Ilan ben Shayna Tzipora

Shmuel Ben Navat

Chanah Tauba bat Tzilah.

Daniella bat Sarah

Rise bat Faiga

Kal Cholei Yisrael




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segunda-feira, 9 de fevereiro de 2026

SF - # The Mandate of Empathy

In honor of Mr. and Mrs. Zev and Chana Breier:
With heartfelt gratitude, we wish you and your family bracha, hatzlacha, and abundant nachas!

Core Idea


"You shall not wrong a stranger, nor oppress him; for you were strangers in the land of Egypt" (Shemos 22:20).

Through this verse, HaShem issues a divine warning: do not exploit the vulnerable—the foreigner, the widow, or the orphan—under the delusion that they are defenseless. Your own history serves as the ultimate proof of My intervention. You were once the helpless slaves, and I was the Witness who saw your tears, heard your cries, and shattered the power of your oppressors.

The Ramban emphasizes that because of your history, you possess a unique "emotional intelligence." You know the "soul of the stranger"—the heavy heart and the eyes constantly turned Heavenward. HaShem promises that just as He responded to your cries in Egypt, He remains the eternal Guardian of the downtrodden, ready to intervene against any who abuse their power.


The Moral


Interpersonal dynamics often tempt those in power to mistreat the disadvantaged. However, the Egyptian experience imprints upon the DNA of Klal Yisrael a fundamental truth: no one is truly "helpless" when HaShem is their Advocate. We are commanded to transform our past suffering into a proactive shield for others.


Application Exercises


To move this from a concept to a character trait (Middah), try these three exercises:

1. The "Perspective Pivot" (Cognitive Empathy)

Think of a situation where you are the "insider" and someone else is the "outsider" (e.g., a new employee at work, a guest at a Shabbos table, or a person who doesn't speak the local language fluently).

  • The Action: Before speaking, recall one specific moment in your life when you felt lost, ignored, or "less than."
  • The Goal: Use that memory to adjust your tone. Ask yourself: "What is one small thing I can say right now to make this person feel seen and secure?"

2. The "Shield of Speech" (Preventing Verbal Oppression)

The Torah specifically warns against "hurting the feelings" (Ona'at Devarim) of the vulnerable.

  • The Action: Identify a group or individual you find it easy to criticize or speak down to (perhaps service staff, someone with different political views, or a younger sibling).
  • The Goal: Commit to a "24-hour silence" on any jokes or comments at their expense. Instead, find one opportunity to offer a genuine word of respect that acknowledges their dignity.

3. The "Moshe Observation" (Active Advocacy)

In the Application text, Moshe Rabbeinu did not just feel bad; he acted.

  • The Action: Scan your immediate environment for a "quiet injustice." Is someone being interrupted in a meeting? Is a child being excluded on a playground? Is a neighbor being spoken about unfairly?
  • The Goal: Intervene gently but firmly. Redirect the conversation or include the person who is being pushed out. By doing so, you are emulating the "Hand of HaShem" that rescues the oppressed from those stronger than them.



Life Advice – עצת חיים


You are welcome to ask any question and receive a personal, private response from Rabbi Zvi Miller.


Please email: salantorg@gmail.com

Donations and Dedications

May the souls who left this world be remembered for a blessing.

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Mordecai ben Rav Moshe and Rebbitzen Mazel Malka bas Sara

R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph

R' Asher Zelig ben Zvi Hirsch and Moras Raizel bas Pesach

Meira Leah bas Michael

Basha Elka bas Moshe HaCohen

Devorah bas Moshe

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Yisrael ben HaRav HaGaon Zev Wolf

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Moshe ben HaRav HaGaon Yacov

Moshe Fisher

HaRav HaGaon Daniel Zvi ben Avraham Chanuch

HaRav HaGaon Ben Zion Freid

HaRav HaGoan Yaacov Yitzchak Abrahams

HaRav HaGaon Gershon Chaim ben Nachum Zev

HaRav Ha Gaon Yehoshua Bergman

R' Maair Ben R' Yakutiel and Javayeer z"tl

Rav Asher ben Chasha Mosha Basha and Chaya Breina Lazarus




Refuah Shleimah

Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta

Zivia bas Raizel

Tzvi ben Chana

Avner Shimon ben Argamon

Leah Hadassah bas Michal Chana

Chava Bas Michal Chanah

Nuna bas Nuna

Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora

Chaya Leah bas Sara

Chaya Shaina Chana Bas Itcha

Netanel Ilan ben Shayna Tzipora

Shmuel Ben Navat

Chanah Tauba bat Tzilah.

Daniella bat Sarah

Rise bat Faiga

Kal Cholei Yisrael




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Israel 058 429 8471


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sexta-feira, 6 de fevereiro de 2026

SF - # The Transformation of Yisro

In honor of Mr. and Mrs. Alan Zavodnick:
With heartfelt gratitude, we wish you and your family bracha, hatzlacha, and abundant nachas!

Core Idea


"Moshe's father-in-law, Yisro, the priest of Midian, heard..." (Shemos 18:1).

The Torah’s specific choice of titles for Yisro reveals a deep lesson in human potential. If the goal were purely to honor him, he would be called "Moshe’s father-in-law." If the goal were to disparage him, he would be labeled simply "the priest of Midian." By using both titles, the Torah highlights his remarkable transformation: he was once a high priest who had experimented with every form of idol worship in the world, yet he evolved into the esteemed father-in-law of our greatest leader.


Embracing the Journey of the Soul


The Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 431) explains that the commandment to "love your neighbor" extends specifically to showing compassion for those in vulnerable positions—such as strangers far from their ancestral homes. From this, we learn a vital communal obligation:

  • Valuing Effort: We must embrace geirim (converts) and baalei teshuvah (returnees to faith), recognizing the immense psychological and social hurdles they cleared to change their lives.
  • A Higher Standard of Love: Rather than looking down on someone’s background, we should accord them greater respect. Their journey required a strength of character that deserves a unique level of admiration.


Practical Exercises

  1. The Narrative Flip: When meeting someone from a different background, consciously replace the thought "they are new to this" with "they are spiritually brave." Acknowledge their courage internally to shift your outward attitude.
  2. The Context Bridge: During group discussions, explain niche "insider" terms or local customs without being asked. This prevents geirim or baalei teshuvah from feeling like outsiders in the conversation.
  3. Peer-Level Connection: Invite a geir or baal teshuvah for a casual coffee or a walk. Focus the conversation on their professional expertise or personal interests to show you value them as a whole person, not just a "religious newcomer."

Based on Rav Moshe Sternbuch's On the Parashah.



Life Advice – עצת חיים


You are welcome to ask any question and receive a personal, private response from Rabbi Zvi Miller.


Please email: salantorg@gmail.com

Donations and Dedications

May the souls who left this world be remembered for a blessing.

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Mordecai ben Rav Moshe and Rebbitzen Mazel Malka bas Sara

R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph

R' Asher Zelig ben Zvi Hirsch and Moras Raizel bas Pesach

Meira Leah bas Michael

Basha Elka bas Moshe HaCohen

Devorah bas Moshe

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Yisrael ben HaRav HaGaon Zev Wolf

HaRav HaGaon Rebe Moshe ben HaRav HaGaon Yacov

Moshe Fisher

HaRav HaGaon Daniel Zvi ben Avraham Chanuch

HaRav HaGaon Ben Zion Freid

HaRav HaGoan Yaacov Yitzchak Abrahams

HaRav HaGaon Gershon Chaim ben Nachum Zev

HaRav Ha Gaon Yehoshua Bergman

R' Maair Ben R' Yakutiel and Javayeer z"tl

Rav Asher ben Chasha Mosha Basha and Chaya Breina Lazarus




Refuah Shleimah

Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta

Zivia bas Raizel

Tzvi ben Chana

Avner Shimon ben Argamon

Leah Hadassah bas Michal Chana

Chava Bas Michal Chanah

Nuna bas Nuna

Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora

Chaya Leah bas Sara

Chaya Shaina Chana Bas Itcha

Netanel Ilan ben Shayna Tzipora

Shmuel Ben Navat

Chanah Tauba bat Tzilah.

Daniella bat Sarah

Rise bat Faiga

Kal Cholei Yisrael




US 305 653 1182
Israel 058 429 8471


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