SF - How to Deal With 'Difficult People'

The journey is beautiful

"You have contended with your opponents, Esav and Lavan, and you defeated them" (cf Bereisheit 32:29). This verse seems counterintuitive. Lavan subjugated Yaacov Avinu to work for twenty years as "wages" for his two wives. Esav's wrath forced Yaacov to flee from him for many years. Ultimately, Yaacov sent Esav a fortune in gifts and bowed down to him seven times. In light of Yaacov's resignation and acquiescence to his archenemies, how can we say that he overcame Esav and Lavan? Yaacov Avinu knew that if he overpowered Esav and Lavan, they would always seek to take revenge against him. Therefore, Yaacov humbled himself to his enemies to give them the perception that they overcame him. Now that "they gained the upper hand" over Yaacov, their burning hatred against Yaacov subsided. Yaacov's wise humility laid the groundwork to bring his enemies to peace.  The ultimate defeat over one's enemy comes by neutralizing their animosity by humbling yourself to them and making peace. Use wisdom to overcome difficult people and relate to them with humility. In turn, they will appease their malice towards you, and peace will prevail. (Based on the commentary of Rav Aaron Bakst) Donate ‌ May the souls who left this world be remembered for a blessing. R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph HaRav HaGaon Rebe Mordecai ben Rav Moshe Meira Leah bas Michael Basha Elka bas Moshe HaCohen R' Maair Ben R' Yakutiel and Javayeer z"tl  HaRav HaGaon Rebe Yisrael ben HaRav HaGaon Zev Wolf HaRav HaGaon Rebe Moshe ben HaRav HaGaon Yacov Moshe Fisher HaRav HaGaon Daniel Zvi ben Avraham Chanuch HaRav HaGaon BZF Refuah Shleimah Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta Rav Raphael David ben Eta Reva Riva bas Henya Zivia bas Raizel Tzvi ben Chana Avner ben Argamon Leah Hadassah bas Michal Chana Chava Bas Michal Chanah Mazal Malkah Mollie Bas Sarah Nuna bas Nuna Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora Chaya Leah bas Sara Chaya Shaina Chana Bas Itcha Netanel Ilan ben Shayna Tzipora Shmuel Ben Navat Chanah Tauba bat Tzilah.  ‌ salantfoundation.org US 305 653 1182 Israel 058 429 8471 Visit our website Connect with us ‌ ‌ ‌

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SF - The Sacredness of Self-Improvement

The journey is beautiful

The Sacredness of Self-Improvement \ Parashat Vayeitzei "And it came to pass when Rachel gave birth to Yoseph" (Bereishis 30:28). Our Sages revealed that Yoseph was the nemesis of Esau, as the prophet Ovadiyah revealed, "The house of Yoseph shall be a flame and the house of Esau shall become stubble." Yoseph's name signifies "increase." Yoseph continuously grew spiritually stronger, each day of his life, steadily increasing in holiness. Whereas, Esau's name connotes "finished." Esau saw himself as perfect, he saw no reason to strive for inner improvement. In contrast, Yoseph's constant effort to better himself empowered him with the strength to defeat Esau.     The key to Yaacov's power was his realization that there is no end to spiritual growth. The more Yaacov worked on self-improvement, the more the power of his holiness increased. Ultimately, Yaacov emerged as the flame of goodness that defeats and overcomes the evil quest of Esau.  Envision Yaacov constantly focused on improving his actions and refining his character traits. Yaacov elevates himself a little more each day, always striving to grow in holiness, kindness, and wisdom. See how Esau's complacency and arrogance renders him stagnant and vulnerable. Envision Yaacov bursting into a great flame and consume the evil Esau. Strive to improve yourself a little more, each and every day.   (Based on the commentary of Rav Dov Yaffe on the Shem M'Shmuel) Donate ‌ May the souls who left this world be remembered for a blessing. R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph HaRav HaGaon Rebe Mordecai ben Rav Moshe Meira Leah bas Michael Basha Elka bas Moshe HaCohen R' Maair Ben R' Yakutiel and Javayeer z"tl  HaRav HaGaon Rebe Yisrael ben HaRav HaGaon Zev Wolf HaRav HaGaon Rebe Moshe ben HaRav HaGaon Yacov Moshe Fisher HaRav HaGaon Daniel Zvi ben Avraham Chanuch HaRav HaGaon BZF Refuah Shleimah Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta Rav Raphael David ben Eta Reva Riva bas Henya Zivia bas Raizel Tzvi ben Chana Avner ben Argamon Leah Hadassah bas Michal Chana Chava Bas Michal Chanah Mazal Malkah Mollie Bas Sarah Nuna bas Nuna Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora Chaya Leah bas Sara Chaya Shaina Chana Bas Itcha Netanel Ilan ben Shayna Tzipora Shmuel Ben Navat Chanah Tauba bat Tzilah.  ‌ salantfoundation.org US 305 653 1182 Israel 058 429 8471 Visit our website Connect with us ‌ ‌ ‌

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Como se Dar Bem Sempre? --> SHABAT VAIETSE (28 de novembro)

 

Meór HaShabat Semanal

Perspectivas para a Vida, Ideias para o Crescimento Pessoal

 

 

 

        

 

 

    Bom dia, !

 

      Eis as novidades desta edição do Meor Hashabat Semanal:

 

   -   Como se Dar Bem Sempre?

   -   Osão Casamentos de Yaacov

   -   Você gosta de Rosas?

                                                                                                                                      

                                                                 

                                                                  

                                                                                                              

Horário de Acender Velas SHABAT (27 de novembro):

S. Paulo: 18:17 h   Rio de Janeiro 18:03  Recife 17:03  Porto Alegre 18:50  Salvador 17:26   Curitiba 18:32

B. Horizonte 17:59  Belém 17:47  Brasília 18:07  Jerusalém 15:57  Tel Aviv 16:14  Miami 17:10  Nova York 16:12

 

e que o Todo-Poderoso afaste toda e qualquer epidemia de toda a humanidade!

 

Shabat Shalom, que todos tenham um ano doce, pleno de bênçãos, saúde, crescimento espiritual e material! 

 

 

gerson

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Esta edição é dedicada em memória de  RABINO KALMAN MOSHE ben REUVEN AVIGDOR, HARAV ELIEZER SAID BEN-DAVID ben MONAVAR, SARA BAT MORDEHAI, MORDEHAI BEN MOSHE  Z"L, HARAV MENAHEM MENDEL BEN HARAV YEHUDA YEHIELZ"TL, REBE DE KALIV, e RABINO AZRIEL TAUBER BEN AHARON Z"TL 

 e à pronta recuperação de Shimon ben Haia Sara, Haim Avraham Tzvi ben Golda, Rebe Moshe ben Reizel, Rabino Shemariahu Yossef Nissim ben Batia e Rabino Matitiahu Haim ben Etl

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Como se Dar Bem Sempre? --> SHABAT VAIETSE (28 de novembro)

 

Meór HaShabat Semanal

Perspectivas para a Vida, Ideias para o Crescimento Pessoal

 

 

 

        

 

 

    Bom dia, !

 

      Eis as novidades desta edição do Meor Hashabat Semanal:

 

   -   Como se Dar Bem Sempre?

   -   Osão Casamentos de Yaacov

   -   Você gosta de Rosas?

                                                                                                                                      

                                                                 

                                                                  

                                                                                                              

Horário de Acender Velas SHABAT (27 de novembro):

S. Paulo: 18:17 h   Rio de Janeiro 18:03  Recife 17:03  Porto Alegre 18:50  Salvador 17:26   Curitiba 18:32

B. Horizonte 17:59  Belém 17:47  Brasília 18:07  Jerusalém 15:57  Tel Aviv 16:14  Miami 17:10  Nova York 16:12

 

e que o Todo-Poderoso afaste toda e qualquer epidemia de toda a humanidade!

 

Shabat Shalom, que todos tenham um ano doce, pleno de bênçãos, saúde, crescimento espiritual e material! 

 

 

gerson

---

Esta edição é dedicada em memória de  RABINO KALMAN MOSHE ben REUVEN AVIGDOR, HARAV ELIEZER SAID BEN-DAVID ben MONAVAR, SARA BAT MORDEHAI, MORDEHAI BEN MOSHE  Z"L, HARAV MENAHEM MENDEL BEN HARAV YEHUDA YEHIELZ"TL, REBE DE KALIV, e RABINO AZRIEL TAUBER BEN AHARON Z"TL 

 e à pronta recuperação de Shimon ben Haia Sara, Haim Avraham Tzvi ben Golda, Rebe Moshe ben Reizel, Rabino Shemariahu Yossef Nissim ben Batia e Rabino Matitiahu Haim ben Etl

Para parar de receber o Meor Hashabat semanalmente:
mande para (to): meor18@hotmail.com
assunto (subject): PARAR