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sexta-feira, 6 de fevereiro de 2026

SF - # The Transformation of Yisro

In honor of Mr. and Mrs. Alan Zavodnick:

With heartfelt gratitude, we wish you and your family bracha, hatzlacha, and abundant nachas!

Core Idea

"Moshe's father-in-law, Yisro, the priest of Midian, heard..." (Shemos 18:1).

The Torah’s specific choice of titles for Yisro reveals a deep lesson in human potential. If the goal were purely to honor him, he would be called "Moshe’s father-in-law." If the goal were to disparage him, he would be labeled simply "the priest of Midian." By using both titles, the Torah highlights his remarkable transformation: he was once a high priest who had experimented with every form of idol worship in the world, yet he evolved into the esteemed father-in-law of our greatest leader.

Embracing the Journey of the Soul

The Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 431) explains that the commandment to "love your neighbor" extends specifically to showing compassion for those in vulnerable positions—such as strangers far from their ancestral homes. From this, we learn a vital communal obligation:

Valuing Effort: We must embrace geirim (converts) and baalei teshuvah (returnees to faith), recognizing the immense psychological and social hurdles they cleared to change their lives.
A Higher Standard of Love: Rather than looking down on someone’s background, we should accord them greater respect. Their journey required a strength of character that deserves a unique level of admiration.

Practical Exercises

The Narrative Flip: When meeting someone from a different background, consciously replace the thought "they are new to this" with "they are spiritually brave." Acknowledge their courage internally to shift your outward attitude.
The Context Bridge: During group discussions, explain niche "insider" terms or local customs without being asked. This prevents geirim or baalei teshuvah from feeling like outsiders in the conversation.
Peer-Level Connection: Invite a geir or baal teshuvah for a casual coffee or a walk. Focus the conversation on their professional expertise or personal interests to show you value them as a whole person, not just a "religious newcomer."