D'var Torah: "Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa says: One who is pleasant to his fellow man, is pleasant to HaShem. But one who is not pleasant to his fellow man is not pleasant to HaShem" (Pirkei Avot 3:13). Can there be anything more valuable and gratifying than knowing the secret of how to be "pleasant to HaShem"? The more we are aware of the merit of being "pleasant to HaShem," the more we will be inspired to be pleasant to others. Yet, to be considered "pleasant to others" is not quite as easy as it sounds. Earning the status of "being pleasant to others" requires great persistence and perseverance. In the sensitive realm of interpersonal relationships, even one display of insensitivity or harshness can compromise one's status as a pleasant person. Therefore, to enjoy the honor of "being pleasant to others," we need to be consistently pleasant to every person, in every time and situation.
Moral: Always be as "soft as butter" and as "sweet as honey" to your fellow person, and attain the esteem of being "pleasant to HaShem." Receive His boundless blessings, compassion, and assistance.
Application: Imagine that you are a guest in the tent of Avraham Avinu. Envision him showering you with warmth, honor, and loving-kindness as he serves you a sumptuous meal. Be inspired to emulate the kindness and graciousness of Avraham. Always be kind and pleasant to all of your family and friends. Enjoy the merit and delight of being pleasant to HaShem.
(Based on Tomer Deborah of Rav Moshe Cordevaro
