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The Art of Sensitivity \ Parashat Ki Teizei D'var Torah: "You shall not plough with an ox and a donkey together" (Devarim 22:10). An ox chews his cud, while a donkey does not. If they were bound together to work in the field, the donkey would mistaken the ox's chewing the cud for eating. The donkey would assume that only the ox was being fed, while he, was denied and ignored. Even though the donkey's distress is based on his misconception, the Torah instructs us to act with consideration for the animal. If we are required to show such insightful compassion for an animal, how much more empathy and care is required in the extremely sensitive realm of our personal relationships.
Moral: The essence of emulating HaShem is responding with sensitivity and compassion towards all of HaShem's creations. Even more, feeling for others and being considerate of them is the essence of wholesome -- and successful -- interpersonal relationships.
Application: Envision Yaacov Avinu faithfully taking care of the sheep in his flock. Imagine him making sure that each sheep is sufficiently fed, rested, and protected. Make every effort to tune in to the needs and pains of everyone around you. Never cause the slightest hurt or insult to any of HaShem's creations, especially your fellow man. Do everything in your power to comfort them, help them, and make them happy. The more compassion you show to others, the more Heaven's blessing, peace, and protection will flow into your life. (Based on the commentary of the Rosh and Tosafos) |
L"N R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph
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Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Ettta
Riva bas HenyaZivia bas RaizelLeah Hadassah bas Michal ChanaChava Bas Michal ChanahChaya Harriet Bat Sophie Lee Mazal Malkah Mollie Bas Sarah Yakir Efraim Ben Rachel Devora
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