The Secret of Repairing Relationships
Yoseph had a dream in which he saw his family bow down to him. He revealed his dream to his brothers. His purpose was not to brag, rather he hoped to create closeness by sharing his inner-most secrets with them. This is especially so, in light of the fact that "dreams follow the interpretation." Therefore, he was demonstrating that he trusted his brothers to give a good interpretation. However, their jealousy of Yoseph clouded their feelings. Instead, of recognizing Yoseph's yearning to repair their estranged relationship, they were offended by his dreams and condemned him strongly.
Lesson: Feelings have a powerful effect on our perceptions. Negative feelings undermine attempts to rectify relationships. Positive feelings create a nurturing atmosphere to heal the relationship.
App: Clear your mind of all negativity -- and open your heart to accept the love of your family and friends.
(Based on Ohr HaChaim on the Torah, Vayeshev) |
L"N R' Yochanon Mordecai ben Ephraim and Moras Esther Leah bas Yehudah Yoseph
Refuah Shieimah Yochanon Baruch ben Fruma Etta Refuah Shleimah R' Pinchas ben Gittel Rus |
